Condoms are usually seen as a way to prevent pregnancy, but that perspective overlooks same-sex partners and heterosexual partners where pregnancy isn’t a possibility.

1. Preventing Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs)

The most important reason to use protection, such as condoms or dental dams, during sexual activity, particularly casual sex, is to reduce the risk of STIs. These infections are transmitted through sexual contact, and many people may not show symptoms and not even know they have it. But just because they have it with no systems does not mean the person they transfer it to won't.

By using protection, individuals can significantly lower the chances of contracting or spreading infections like HIV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and syphilis.

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2. Promoting Health Awareness

Using protection encourages open conversations about sexual health between partners. It fosters a culture of awareness and responsibility, prompting individuals to get tested regularly and discuss their health status with each other. This communication is crucial in any sexual relationship.

3. Enhancing Sexual Pleasure

Many people mistakenly believe that using condoms diminishes pleasure, but modern condoms are often designed to enhance the experience. They come in various sizes, textures, and materials, making it possible to find options that feel great while still providing protection.

If you have tried and tested different ones and still feel it is reducing your pleasure, remember:

1. The short term pleasure is not worth the long term suffering of contracting an STI

2. If you are in a relationship or have a regular sexual partner it is important to communicate how you both feel about different types of contraception and be open about getting tested for STIs regularly (between sexual partners).

4. Building Trust Between Partners

When both partners prioritise protection, it demonstrates mutual respect and care for each other's health. This shared responsibility can strengthen trust and intimacy in the relationship. Building intimacy also makes sexual experiences more pleasurable. You should never feel pressured to not use protection. Not only is it a risk to your health but it also will also make the sexual experience less enjoyable as feeling safe both physically and mentally is a key factor in pleasurable sex.

Ultimately, using protection during queer sex is crucial for preventing against STIs, promoting health awareness, and fostering trust between partners.